The following strategies could prove to be helpful:
Explain the concept of bullying – what can happen, what it sounds/looks like, and make sure your kids fully understand
Teach them not to react – bullies feed on the reactions of others – they tend to prey on people who are vulnerable
Try to establish a mentoring situation – another student who will partner with your kid – bullies tend not to be effective when peers intervene
Spend time with your kids and explain the in’s and out’s of cyber-bullying – they need to understand the different ways in which the Internet can be both a fun, entertaining place, but also unsafe
Work with teachers and other educators to provide anti-bullying awareness training, prevention and intervention strategies at schools and community centers
Make sure you understand everything that is already being done at your kid’s school and support those efforts – don’t assume efforts or measures are not in place
Review your county’s Code of Conduct to familiarize yourself with all of its measures
Do not under any circumstances allow a school to ignore specific complaints about bullying – sometimes a teacher or other school staff member may not wish to get involved, or they don’t believe the allegations for some reason. Be persistent. Write everything down. Get legal help when necessary.
Make sure your kid gets all the support they need – counselling, peer support, understanding, compassion, and talk it out with them and handle all problems as quickly as possible
Teach your kids how to use the Internet safely – it is crucial they understand that some websites, forums, and chat sites can be dangerous
Speak with your kids about their experiences with others – try not to let them get away with saying “everything is fine” if your instincts tell you otherwise